SUCCESS IS NOTHING BUT PROPER MANAGEMENT OF FAILURES

Actually, fate is very intricately present in our success and it is really difficult to talk of success where there is no role played by our fate. In order to meet our objective, that is, to ponder over the means of obtaining success, we may assume the role of fate in our success to be minimum.

For obtaining success, we must be in the habit of taking right decisions. But, it is only after taking wrong decisions that we can become right-decision-taker. Wrong decision making refers to failures. As such, it is very right when it is said that failures only can pave our way to success.

The persons, who fail, do not lack in physical capability or talent, but quit or give up early because of lack of perseverance, that is, struggling-nature. Only those persons succeed, who while in bad times can remain patient till the time changes. Right karmas necessary to change times stand on the ground of patience. Learning ability to face or handle failures is a great task to be achieved in one’s student-hood. Failures do come in everyone’s life as life is nothing but a combination of successes and failures. But, how failures can be taken as a step towards successes? The best way of learning as to how to handle failures is to make it a habit of studying the biographies of great men of the world and the literature considered good for social health. These biographies are full of incidents, where these great men unbelievably sprang up out of adversities. In comparison to their problems, our problems are nothing more than trifles and by studying these biographies, a sort of different mindset develops in us towards our failures. To have success, we must take right decisions at the right time and we must remember that at the base of our ability to take right decisions, our wrong decisions lie. As such, there is nothing bad in taking wrong decisions but what matters is the teachings we learn from these wrong decisions. There is a thought in the vedaas which says-‘O! Adversities, I am standing to welcome you as I know that you have come to make me stronger.’ Since, in adversities, difficulties or failures lie the opportunities of our successes, we must learn as to how to be happy on receiving them. To imbibe the spirit of this thought, one is required to ponder over it again and again.